Feminity

Women should wear makeup, girls wear dresses, it’s not lady like to sit with your legs uncrossed, women wear pearls and heels… Do any of these sound familiar to you ladies? I hope I’m not alone when I say that all of these overly exaggerated perceptions of womanhood and being feminine is hogwash to me. There is nothing wrong with any of this if this is apart of who you are authencially; however for those of us who don’t fit this mold it’s perfectly okay to sport your denim jeans without heels or rock your graphic tees without wearing heels or fixing your hair a specific way. Being a woman has nothing to do with fashion but more so your softer gentle side and if it means the outside look is sneakers and a team Jersey so be it. We have to stop being fixated on images and begin to fall in love with our individual selves; yes I get it we were designed as humans who are stimulated by what we see but make sure your comfortable in the skin you were given. Remember ladies we are all uniquely designed embrace you, if you gotta enhance something let it be your relationship with you.